What’s important to look for is quality time, quality connection. What it looks like if he likes you for more than sex: How can you tell the difference between a booty call and a serious intimate connection? It’s actually really simple. Him not being remotely available and you being the last option is more than a rough patch, it’s a sign he truly is losing interest. She never took the time to even confront him seriously on his absence, and thought it was just a rough patch. To everyone it was clear as day, even to the point of her friends telling her to smarten up, and unfortunately, this woman had her heart broken. He was avoiding her at all costs, clearly, but her love for him completely put blinders on her. The most they interacted for almost two months was him coming home and literally saying goodnight, then passing out. His actions spoke much louder than his words in this occasion, but when you’re living together it isn’t as simple as just breaking up, so it lasted a while like this.
All he could do was say how much he needed to “get away ” it was obvious things were sour. He would leave for work, and would always have plans after with me, or someone, or would even just do things on his own. He was wavering on whether he should end a long-term relationship. You’re a convenience not a priority, or at least it feels that way.Ī good example, which I have personally witnessed, is about a guy I know. It’s never a good sign for any relationship or friendship when you can clearly see that you’re the last name in the rolodex. Signs He Doesn’t Care: Sign #1: You are his “last minute” optionĭoes he not make it a point to prioritize you? When he plans his day, does it never seem to even take you into consideration? Take this quiz to diagnose whether he is losing interest or whether he still cares (if he even cares a little bit still, this quiz will diagnose and reveal exactly what you are dealing with right now, so take this before it’s too late and his care level goes to zero. This means step back, breathe and try to see things for how they are.
Don’t worry you will have clarity at the end of this, which is all you really need to make a clear decision and either move forward or make things work. With that said… I am going to give you a list of 15 signs that he doesn’t care about you so that you can assess the situation and know for sure once and for all. The point I am trying to make is that it’s normally obvious if a man cares. I have been a notoriously quiet guy in the past and have had women who quite frankly I was fine having sex with but had zero interest in a relationship with accuse me of being “rude” or “quiet” and a “tough nut to crack.”īut truthfully, in this situations, whenever a woman has questioned or wondered whether I cared or not, the truth is I probably didn’t care.
In other words, you must never judge before really getting to the core of the issue.